My son is happy to have Jasper back! He gets to practice his throwing & his leadership at the same time! Jasper can become obsessed with the ball, so we always end the game early on our terms by claiming the ball back and walking away. Jasper is not allowed to grab it or demand we throw it again. Completely ignoring him until he gets tired of waiting usually works. You have to be patient, but it’s for Jasper’s own good. Obsessing over anything is never healthy.